Tantra for Life

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About me
I have just three things to teach;
simplicity, patience and compassion.
These three are your greatest treasures. 
Simple in actions and thoughts, 
you return to the source of being.
LAO TZU

Welcome, and thanks for taking the time to learn more about me. I'm Lotus and I am a Tantra Counselor/Educator, Sexuality coach and Spiritual Teacher. I specialize in sexuality, relationships and intimacy and have great success with sexual dysfunction problems. As well as being a certified Tantric Therapist, I am also a mother of four children, three of which are in their 20's.

I have consciously been on my spiritual journey for many years now, but before then I lived this path unknowingly .........Up until this time I was very much like yourself, wondering why I didn't fit, knowing there was something more, but not knowing what that might be.  

My training includes apprenticeship with Goddess Temple. I have studied meditation and massage under the Tantric Master and author, Daniel Odier. My ongoing studies and daily practice are under the guidance of Hsi Lai and include Taoist philosophy, internal alchemy, meditation and Chinese massage.  I am also a NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) practitioner which is a technique for becoming aware of our inner voice and feelings that helps us trust intuition to be our guide and, in so doing, create healthier patterns and behaviors in our life.

My philosophy for life is simple...... Live each day to the fullest and never do anything that will compromise my integrity regardless of the belief systems of others. My spiritual practice has given me the wisdom and clarity to understand my life thus far and what I need to do moving forward. Sharing this with others was instinctive and is my calling.

Tantra is about love, absolute and unconditional, giving to another spontaneously with no conditions, no agenda. The combination of energies brought about by these intentions can bring forth sensations of pure bliss, ecstasy, pleasure, peace and contentment and a new found vitality and youthfulness. This is the simplest way to first experience Tantra. But this is only the beginning, there is much more.

Simply put, the experience of Tantra can transform you. When one mentions or hears of Tantra one immediately thinks of  better sex, but why stop at being a better lover when you can become better in all you do. Tantra is about fully experiencing everything in the present while being true to yourself. To love yourself, may seem selfish, especially to those around you because they believe it is you who should be making them happy. To do things that give you pleasure and happiness, often results in a sense of shame and guilt thanks to people's mind games and todays' sex-negative and moral standards. We are here for such a short time, why deny yourself something completely natural, so pure, so beautiful and so very pleasurable? If you are living life honoring your true self you will be content and this contentment will exude to others that are around you. Knowing you are responsible for your own happiness is life-changing for yourself and others.......You owe it to yourself to leave this world a better person than when you entered it. 

On my personal journey, I have  come to realize that my passion for Tantra, my knowledge and my life experiences are to be shared with those around me. It is my destiny to enable anyone who is ready, to experience it and I do it out of my genuine desire to help others. The changes that take place in those that I touch and love reverberates through those around them and affects the children and children's children of those same people.

My intention for you is to raise your awareness and show you a path to help you to learn to love yourself, to find clarity and peace of mind as well as true contentment. In fact, to know yourself without judgment and be the best that you can be. I can support you in releasing any fear, guilt, shame, feelings of inadequacy, mistrust, pain, sadness, anger or any other feelings or emotions that you may be suppressing. 

Together I can show you how to connect the mind, body, spirit and emotions to allow you to experience the divine happiness and ecstatic pleasure that you are so deserving of.